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DREAD & DECADENCE COSTUMES

A Costume & Performance Guide for Gothic Characters — From Cursed Aristocrats to Creeping Shadows. 

Tragic, Timeless… and Totally Suspect

Gothic characters are cloaked in mystery, steeped in sorrow, and almost always hiding a dreadful secret. Whether you dwell in a crumbling estate, haunt candlelit corridors, or whisper poetry to ravens, this aesthetic blends elegance with eerie unease. Gothic roles are perfect for guests who like their drama dark, their makeup darker, and their motives buried deep. This guide will help you embody characters that ooze melancholy, menace, and maybe... murder.

EXAMPLES OF DREAD & DECADENCE COSTUMES

Possible Characters in the “Dread & Decadence” Category:

  • The Cursed Countess or Baron in Black

  • Gothic Heiress or Tormented Bride

  • Creepy Doll/Doll Collector

  • Punk Rocker

  • Mad Poet or Disgraced Novelist

  • Phantom Musician or Silent Composer

  • Morbid Medium or Séance Host

  • Gravekeeper, Undertaker, or Crypt Curator

  • Reclusive Vampire or Charming Ghoul

  • Abandoned Ward or Forgotten Orphan

  • Alchemist, Occultist, or Scholar of Forbidden Knowledge

  • Ghost Bride or Phantom Groom

  • Decaying Noble or Portrait-Come-to-Life

  • Melancholy Videographer that turns happy times into dark movies

 

What You Might Already Have in Your Closet:

  • Long black dress, turtleneck, or flowy skirt

  • Black blazer, waistcoat, or floor-length coat

  • Lace, velvet, satin, or leather pieces

  • Corset, shawl, cloak, or cape

  • Gloves (lace, leather, or opera-length)

  • Dark boots or Victorian-style shoes

  • Fishnets, layered skirts, or old formalwear

  • Anything with antique detailing — ruffles, high collars, puffed sleeves

 

Hair & Makeup Tips:

  • Pale foundation, hollowed cheeks, and dark brows

  • Smoky eyes, deep plum or black lipstick, and eyeliner that could kill

  • Hair in low buns, elaborate updos, or long and unbrushed

  • Add streaks of gray, fake blood at the corner of the mouth, or a black veil

  • Dust your skin with powder for that “eternally indoors” look

  • Tear-streaked mascara or bloodshot contacts for more drama

 

Accessories & Props:

  • Candelabra, vintage key, or cracked locket

  • A book of poetry, old diary, or forbidden grimoire

  • Small mirror, antique hand fan, or rosary

  • Wedding veil, engagement ring, or funeral wreath

  • Raven feather, quill pen, or sealed envelope with wax stamp

  • “Bottle of laudanum” (repurposed perfume or apothecary bottle)

  • Gloves with blood stains or a black lace parasol

  • Faux (puh-leez) skull, hourglass, or mini portrait of a long-lost love

 

Behaviors, Voice, and Quirks:

  • Speak slowly and dramatically — as if every word could be your last

  • Use poetic language: “The darkness knows me well,” or “He was the echo of a forgotten scream.”

  • Pause to stare at paintings, candles, or seemingly nothing at all

  • Mourn constantly — whether it’s your lost fortune, twin, or soul

  • Refer to people by full name and title — “Lady Evangeline of Hollowmoor”

  • Glide instead of walk, flinch at bright light, or clutch your chest for invisible pain

  • Quirks: Write obsessive notes, quote tragic verse, talk to ghosts, or faint just a little too dramatically

 

Gothic characters bring drama, decadence, and death with a sense of grim beauty. Whether you're the host of the haunted estate or the haunted soul trapped inside it, you're part of a mystery soaked in candlewax, roses, and very suspicious silence. Will you be the cursed... or the curse?

MORE NOTES: 

Gothic characters just need to wear dark clothing - primarily black. You can add a pop of red or purple, as well. 
Ruffles, lace, and high necks. Flowing sleeves, skirts, capes. Most of the Gothic attire will have a Victorian inspiration, so vampire costumes can work for Gothic characters of all kinds - just don't wear the teeth or carry a coffin purse if you're not a vampire. 
Accessories should be silver or pewter featuring skulls, crosses, bats or other Gothic motifs. Chokers, especially velvet or lace are iconic. 
Footwear - boots are a mainstay, especially combat, platform, or Victorian lace-up boots. 
Hair: black hair is the most common, but any color can be made to look Gothic with the right style. 
Remember, Gothic fashion is diverse, and there's a lot of room for personal expression. Feel free to mix elements from different Gothic subgenres, like romantic, industrial, or cybergoth, to create a look that's uniquely yours. The most important aspect is to wear what you feel comfortable and confident in, and what best expresses your individual take on the Gothic aesthetic.

🦇 DREAD & DECADENCE: A Gothic Character Guide

Because not all ghosts haunt — some just brood dramatically by candlelight.

🩸 The Cursed Countess / Baron in Black

Vibe: Dramatic. Doomed. Dresses like grief is a fashion statement.
Costume (from your closet):
Long black coat or cape, velvet gloves, lace or ruffled collar, silver jewelry.
Easy to buy: Faux antique ring, goblet, or prop dagger.
Props: Wine glass (definitely blood), black veil, candleholder.
Quirks & How to Act:

  • Speak in sighs and riddles.

  • Flinch at sunlight.

  • Treat every sentence like it’s your last words before the curse strikes again.
    Sayings:

 

“My wealth could not buy me peace… only better tailoring.”
“Don’t mistake this pallor for weakness—it’s just centuries of ennui.”

🕯️ The Gothic Heiress / Tormented Bride

Vibe: Equal parts heartbreak and haute couture.
Costume (from your closet):
Lace gown or vintage dress, sheer shawl, gloves, pearls, and mascara-streaked tears.
Easy to buy: Lace gloves, veil, fake black rose.
Props: Handkerchief (monogrammed with tragedy), broken locket.
Quirks & How to Act:

  • Clutch your chest at random.

  • Speak as if your heart is permanently breaking—but aesthetically.

  • Mention “my beloved” constantly and never clarify who that is.
    Sayings:

 

“He promised eternity, but all I got was this veil.”
“Till death do us part? Overachiever.”

🪶 The Mad Poet / Disgraced Novelist

Vibe: Tortured genius, allergic to happiness.
Costume (from your closet):
Disheveled suit or poet’s blouse, scarf, messy hair, ink stains optional.
Easy to buy: Feather quill, notebook, fake bottle of absinthe.
Props: Journal of dark verse, candle stub, flask.
Quirks & How to Act:

  • Stare into the void mid-sentence.

  • Sigh “no one understands my art” frequently.

  • Flirt like you’re confessing a sin.
    Sayings:

 

“Every line I write bleeds.”
“My publisher betrayed me… right before the critics did.”

🎻 The Phantom Musician / Silent Composer

Vibe: Haunted virtuoso. Communicates mostly in brooding gestures.
Costume (from your closet):
Black turtleneck, flowing cape or scarf, gloves, pale face makeup.
Easy to buy: Toy violin, sheet music, mask.
Props: Baton, earplugs, or music box.
Quirks & How to Act:

  • Hum eerie tunes under your breath.

  • Conduct imaginary orchestras.

  • “Hear” music that no one else does.
    Sayings:

 

“Every note I write… summons something.”
“Silence is the loudest scream.”

☠️ The Morbid Medium / Séance Host

Vibe: Overly confident psychic who might actually be possessed.
Costume (from your closet):
Flowy blouse, shawl, rings on every finger, dramatic eyeliner.
Easy to buy: Crystal ball, tarot deck, candle.
Props: Ouija board, spirit bell, incense stick.
Quirks & How to Act:

  • Interrupt conversations to say “they’re here.”

  • Roll your eyes back dramatically during “visions.”

  • Tell everyone they have “dark energy.”
    Sayings:

 

“The spirits whisper… mostly gossip.”
“I’m sensing betrayal… and bad breath.”

⚰️ The Gravekeeper / Undertaker / Crypt Curator

Vibe: Practical, grimly funny, knows everyone — because they buried them.
Costume (from your closet):
Dark work jacket, gloves, flat cap, muddy boots.
Easy to buy: Lantern, spade, name tag that says “Mourning Shift.”
Props: Fake shovel, pocket watch, list of “clients.”
Quirks & How to Act:

  • Tell terrible puns about death.

  • Eat snacks at inappropriate times.

  • Be unbothered by ghosts.
    Sayings:

 

“Business is dead, as usual.”
“Six feet under, but make it cozy.”

🧛 The Reclusive Vampire / Charming Ghoul

Vibe: Smooth, seductive, and chronically nocturnal.
Costume (from your closet):
Dark suit or long coat, pale makeup, fangs, red accent.
Easy to buy: Cape, fake blood, fangs.
Props: Goblet, pocket mirror (you won’t need it), black umbrella.
Quirks & How to Act:

  • Compliment people’s “veins.”

  • Hiss at garlic bread.

  • Refuse to sit unless it’s on a throne.
    Sayings:

 

“I never bite on the first date.”
“You look positively… alive tonight.”

👻 The Abandoned Ward / Forgotten Orphan

Vibe: Sweet, eerie, and possibly undead.
Costume (from your closet):
Old-fashioned nightgown or oversized coat, pale makeup, tangled hair.
Easy to buy: Teddy bear, candle, “missing child” tag.
Props: Broken doll, letter addressed to “Mother.”
Quirks & How to Act:

  • Speak in whispers.

  • Wander off suddenly and reappear behind people.

  • Ask creepy questions like, “Have you seen my family?”
    Sayings:

 

“They said I’d never leave the orphanage. They were right.”
“I remember… before the fire.”

🔮 The Alchemist / Occultist / Scholar of Forbidden Knowledge

Vibe: Brilliant and cursed by their own curiosity.
Costume (from your closet):
Long coat or robe, goggles, vest, and gloves.
Easy to buy: Beakers, glass bottles, fake potion labels.
Props: Notebook labeled “Do Not Read,” vial of “essence.”
Quirks & How to Act:

  • Smell your concoctions like fine wine.

  • Speak in cryptic formulas.

  • Treat knowledge like contraband.
    Sayings:

 

“Some truths were never meant to be learned.”
“I’ve created life before. It didn’t end well.”

💍 The Ghost Bride / Phantom Groom

Vibe: Eternal romantic tragedy wrapped in chiffon and regret.
Costume (from your closet):
Tattered wedding attire, veil, white gloves, smeared makeup.
Easy to buy: Faux ring, lace veil, bouquet of dead flowers.
Props: Ring box, candle, love letter.
Quirks & How to Act:

  • Appear behind people dramatically.

  • Sigh “I do…” at random.

  • Talk like you’re waiting for someone centuries late.
    Sayings:

 

“The vows were forever. He was not.”
“It wasn’t cold feet—it was the grave.”

🖼️ The Decaying Noble / Portrait-Come-to-Life

Vibe: Once-beautiful, now a bit… flakey. Literally.
Costume (from your closet):
Regal suit or gown, powdered face, cracks drawn with eyeliner.
Easy to buy: Old frame (stand in it for drama), pearls, gloves.
Props: Hand mirror, cobwebs, vintage fan.
Quirks & How to Act:

  • Move stiffly, like oil paint drying.

  • Refer to yourself in the third person.

  • Panic when anyone says “touch-up.”
    Sayings:

 

“I was beautiful once… I still am, in dim lighting.”
“The canvas remembers everything.”

 

🎸 The Chaotic Punk

Vibe: Rebellious, loud, allergic to authority, and fueled by eyeliner and attitude.
Costume (from your closet): Ripped jeans, band tee, plaid skirt, fishnets, combat boots, leather jacket.
Easy to buy: Spiked accessories, faux piercings, studded wristbands, neon hair spray.
Props: Chain necklace, air guitar, cardboard amp, safety pins (decorative only), energy drink.
Quirks & How to Act:
Glare at anyone who seems too cheerful. Speak in dry sarcasm. Stomp around like the world is your personal stage. Air-guitar aggressively during normal conversations. Flick your hair dramatically, even if it doesn’t move. Treat every object like it has wronged you personally.
Sayings:
“Conformity? Couldn’t be me.”
“I was punk before you even knew what angst was.”
“Yeah, I made this outfit myself. It shows.”

🪆 The Creepy Doll / Doll Collector

Vibe: Sweet on the outside, unsettling on the inside, with a delicate smile that feels like a warning.
Costume (from your closet): Ruffled dress or pinafore, knee socks, Mary Janes, bow headband; for the collector, cardigan, long skirt, tidy blouse.
Easy to buy: Lace gloves, porcelain doll, cracked-doll mask, giant hair bows.
Props: Teacup, old baby doll, tiny brush, lace parasol, suitcase labeled “FRAGILE.”
Quirks & How to Act:
Move in stiff, jerky motions. Tilt your head abruptly. Blink too slowly or not at all. Whisper secrets to your doll and nod as if it replied. For the collector, introduce each doll by name and personality as if they are alive. Smile politely while saying deeply concerning things.
Sayings:
“She doesn’t like strangers… she bites.”
“Oh, don’t worry. They only move at night.”
“They’ve been so lonely since the last incident.”

📹 The Melancholy Videographer

Vibe: Artsy, haunted, and always filming your downfall.
Costume (from your closet):
Dark turtleneck, long coat, camera or phone on tripod.
Easy to buy: Camera, film reel, “director” clapper.
Props: Flashlight, camera strap, gloomy playlist.
Quirks & How to Act:

  • Record everything silently.

  • Whisper commentary like a tragic narrator.

  • Turn every moment into an “aesthetic.”
    Sayings:

 

“Smile. Tragedy tests well with audiences.”
“Every frame is a eulogy.”

🧥 WHAT YOU MIGHT ALREADY OWN

  • Black coat, cape, or veil

  • Gloves, lace, and layers

  • Candles, goblets, or lanterns

  • Pearls or silver jewelry

  • Boots or heels

  • Hair teased or pinned loosely

  • Smudged eyeliner = instant gothic

🕯️ HOW TO ACT

  • Slow, dramatic movements.

  • Speak like every word has emotional gravity.

  • Look distant — like you’ve seen the afterlife and weren’t impressed.

  • Laugh softly when someone panics.

  • If accused of murder, whisper: “Wouldn’t it be poetic if I had? 

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